Tom has been married to Jackie since 1991. Together, they have four children: Stephanie, Steven, Spencer and Scott. They are involved with their children by coaching, busing and leading various organizations and committees. He and his family reside in Kinnelon, NJ. He enjoys friends, family and the Jersey Shore.
In 2017 he co-founded the Diversity Inclusion Council at Northwestern Mutual Morristown and currently serves as a board member.
Tom also serves on the agency's Advancement, Achievement, and Accredited Women's Initiative council and is an ally to the LGBTQIA community.